One reason people have trouble stopping masturbation is because they have no other sexual outlet. This blog entry discusses a healthy alternative to masturbation.

The most frequently asked question submitted to Happeh Theory is “How can I stop my body from being changed by masturbation?”.

The obvious answer to that question is of course “stop masturbating”. Happeh Theory advises the individual in this situation to stop masturbating and begin partner sex because human beings were designed for partner sex. Partner sex is healthy and therapeutic for the individual.

According to Happeh Theory, partner sex is designed to trigger and motivate the physical maturation process of the human body. The body of an individual who masturbates instead of engaging in partner sex may never change into a fully and completely physically mature human body.

( There are methods of stimulating the physical maturation of the human body that do not involve partner sex. A reader who is non sexual should not take the statement about the link between partner sex and full physical body maturation to mean that they must have partner sex to become a fully physically mature human being. The non sexual individual can instead practice one of the other methods for stimulating the full physical maturation of the human body that do not involve partner sex. )

Some individuals feel helpless or hopeless when they encounter the advice to substitute partner sex for masturbation. For various reasons these individuals cannot obtain partner sex, they do not want partner sex, or they are uninterested in partner sex. These people can feel doomed to becoming blind and crippled, because they need sexual release and masturbation is the only type of sexual release they allow themselves.

There is another alternative to masturbation for these people. This alternative does not provide the same degree of health benefits and therapy that partner sex does. It is highly recommended that the masturbating individual overcome whatever obstacles there are to partner sex. If the now informed individual feels that they still do not want partner sex, they can make use of the alternative described next.

The alternative involves a sexual aid called a “FleshLight”. A Fleshlight has a duplicate of a mouth, a vagina, or an anus, mounted in a metal housing that looks like a flashlight, hence the name “FleshLight”.

A FleshLight is designed to be held in the hand and used to masturbate with instead of using the hand itself.

One of the reasons maturbation harms the body is that when the hand encircles the penis for masturbation it does not completely encircle the penis. The arrows in the next picture highlight part of the penis that is not covered by the masturbating hand.

Because the penis is not completely encircled by the hand, uneven pressure is applied to the penis during masturbation. Relatively strong pressure is applied by the hand to every part of the penis except the part of the penis the hand does not cover, which receives no pressure at all.

The FleshLight completely encircles the penis.

Because the FleshLight completely encircles the penis, equal pressure will be applied all around the circumference of the penis. It is healthier for the penis and healthier for the human body if the penis receives similar pressure at all points on it’s surface that are in sexual contact with something.

While applying even pressure to the entire circumference of the penis does alleviate some of the health impacts caused by masturbation, that is not the reason for recommending the use of a FleshLight for sex instead of masturbating with the hand.

The main reason masturbation causes health problems is because the individual has to use their arm to masturbate. The individual who wants to masturbate but does not want to go blind and crippled from arm masturbation, needs an alternative type of masturbation.

That is how using a FleshLight can prevent masturbation caused blindness and crippledness. A FleshLight can be set up to be used for armless masturbation.

Devices have been created that mount a FleshLight into a platform like the one shown next.

Instead of using the hand to hold the FleshLight to masturbate, causing many of the same problems that masturbating with the hand causes, the individual gets on their knees in front of the platform mounted FleshLight,

so they can push and pull their penis into and out of the FleshLight with their buttocks,

hips,

and legs,

as their body was designed to.

This blog entry has used the FleshLight and a platform designed for a FleshLight as examples because images of those objects were available. Any sexual aid that completely encircles the penis and can be firmly mounted on a platform will work just as effectively.

The example platform for the FleshLight was designed so the individual was on their knees to use the FleshLight. It would be just as good and perhaps even better if the FleshLight or other sexual aid was mounted at a height comfortable to use while standing firmly planted on both feet. A shop vise would work well to hold the FleshLight or sexual aid at a comfortable standing height. Or a platform of the proper height could be built.

Regardless of what platform type appeals to the individual, the important thing is to completely stop using the hand to sexually stimulate the penis,

and to instead pump a platform mounted FleshLight or similar sexual aid with the buttocks, hips, and legs, as the human body was designed to do.

  • Anonymous

    Thanks for the info. I am so glad to find this website. I would like to have some of my doubts cleared.
    May I know how often does one need to engage in partner sex in order to fully recover from the changes (including asymmetry) caused due to masturbation? Also, could you tell me how long will the whole process of recovery take? What about excessive sex? Are there any side effects to that?

    • Anonymous

      I hope the article did not give the impression that partner sex should be chosen as a rehabilitative process. The question sounds like “how many sessions of partner sex per time period will fix my body?”. The article is recommending partner sex as an alternative to masturbation in order to prevent further negative changes to the body.

      The article does state that partner sex changes the body in a beneficial way, and it does link partner sex to the natural maturation process of the human body. Both of those results are different from rehabilitation. Rehabilitation is more of a directed and focused activity directed towards the remediation of some problem. The words “beneficial” and “therapeutic” have a softer meaning that would be associated with events that are incidental to some activity.

      Recovery from masturbation caused changes is related to the time the individual has spent masturbating. If an individual has masturbated infrequently for a short period of time such as 6 months or 1 year, their body should respond to rehabilitation fairly quickly.

      An individual who has either masturbated frequently for short or long periods of time, or masturbated infrequently over long periods of time can expect a rehabilitation period of literally years. Three years is the generally accepted minimum amount of time for the individual to become acquainted with their chosen rehabilitation method, actually engage in the rehabilitation method, and feel the results in their body.

      Individuals who have spent years masturbating or who are highly sexual and masturbated frequently, can expect many more years of rehabilitation in order to recover the maximum amount from the changes masturbation has made to their body.

      Excessive Sex is just as bad for the body as Excessive Masturbation is. That is why I had such a hard time answering the “partner sex as rehabilitation” question. Excessive Sex results in almost the exact same bodily changes as those caused by Excessive Masturbation. The link below leads to an introductory article about the effects of Excessive Sexual Activity on the human body from the perspective of Happeh Theory.

      http://www.happehtheory.com/2010/03/19/excessive-sex-will-make-you-blind-and-crippled/

  • Anonymous

    Thanks for the info. I am so glad to find this website. I would like to have some of my doubts cleared.
    May I know how often does one need to engage in partner sex in order to fully recover from the changes (including asymmetry) caused due to masturbation? Also, could you tell me how long will the whole process of recovery take? What about excessive sex? Are there any side effects to that?

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